Why would I need Craigsbootylist .com?
I thought for sure I was doing just fine with the ladies. I was, I had it all… the looks, the money, and even a little bit of local fame. Two things happened that really started to change my outlook… 1) The girls were just coming to me for my money and looks, and 2) I was starting to get older and wanted something more substantial out of a relationship. I had enough of the one night stands and wild party nights.
Kara, a girl I had dated on and off for a few years, suggested going online. Specifically she suggested Craigsbootylist .com which I thought was a joke the name. I expected her to say match.com or e-harmony, something a little more main stream. Not to mention the fact that she was a booty call for me and she was suggested something with a name like that? It just seemed kind of weird at first.
I gave it a try anyways and found that there were really some sweet girls on there. While sure, Craigsbootylist .com is a great place to hook up with the local singles, you can really find some great girls on there too. In fact, you may even find your soulmate.
It was October of 2007 and I was on Craigsbootylist .com when I saw I girl I just knew would be mine forever. Not in a creepy stalker way, but I just had this sense that something serious could happen with this girl. Her name was Tiffany and as I came to find out, we both grew up in Boston about 2 blocks away from each other. She went to private school so I had never met her before. The crazy part was that we were both living in Santa Monica, CA, all the way on the other side of the states from where we grew up. Nonetheless, there she was on Craigsbootylist .com, probably the last place you’d expect to see a sweet catholic school girl.
Tiffany was 21 and I was 27 at the time I first contacted her. I just dropped her a line that read something like “Hey, you from Boston?” and that’s when she told me the story of where she grew up. As it turns out, her mom moved and is now next door neighbors with my mom. I’ve found that mom even know her mom and they play cards together on Saturdays. I guess it really is a small world.
Anyways, back to Tiffany and I. She was in School training to a masseuse, while I already owned several successful companies. Despite the fact that we were in different worlds when we first met, I can’t imagine my life without her now. This girl means so much to me, it’s unbelievable. There did turn out to be one problem though.
While she is the love of my life and I care about her tremendously, there are certain needs she just wasn’t satisfying. So I tried my best to talk to her and every time I’d bring it up, she’d always say “well find someone who can satisfy your needs then.” That’s just what I did….
I went back to Craigsbootylist .com where I can meet a new girl once every couple of weeks and go out for a cocktail and see how things go. Tiffany’s not too thrilled about it, but I think having complete freedom is important. It’s weird how being a polygamist has actually helped Tiffany and mine’s relationship quite a bit. She just may not realize it yet.
I asked a close female friend of my mine if she thought I was pig about all of this and she told me “No, she’s probably doing the same thing to you.” Even though it hurt at first, she was probably right. I’m willing to bet that Tiffany has a little extra something going on the side which should be her own business. This will change when she gets pregnant and starts having my kids. It’s important to me that we are safe about this new kind of lifestyle, but as long as everyone is responsible, safe and honest I don’t see how anyone can get hurt.
Truth of the matter is that I
want to settle down and get married at some point, just not quite
yet. My plan is to give it another year and see where we’re at. If
things are still working out as well as they are now, I will be
willing to get on a bended knee. We’ll go big, with a big wedding,
beautiful reception, everyone will be there, it will be great. Now,
on the other hand, If things aren’t working out as well, then back
to Craigsbootylist .com it is for me and I’ll be happy just the
same.